The Flower You're Not Supposed to Pick
Sep 14, 2025
Living in China, you learn to mark the seasons not just by the weather, but by the sights and smells on the street. And as the sticky, humid summer begins to fade, the lotus vendors appear. It’s a sight I’ve come to love. On my way home, or even just heading to the mall, there they are: men and women with buckets, holding up gorgeous, plate-sized lotus flowers and their strange, shower-head-like seed pods.
For the longest time, this beautiful, everyday sight confused me.
You see, I grew up with a very specific rule about lotus flowers: you don’t pick them. I was always told that unlike a rose, a lotus can’t survive in a vase of water. The moment you cut its stem, it begins to die. So how could these people be selling them on the street? It felt like a little mystery I was meant to solve.
My quest to understand this led me somewhere much deeper than I expected. The story of the lotus in China isn’t just about a flower; it’s about a way of seeing the world. It’s famous for its incredible journey, growing out of the muddiest, murkiest water to rise above the surface and bloom, perfectly clean and beautiful.
With my own background in yoga and traditional Chinese medicine, this symbolism of rising above the "mud" of daily life really resonates with me. It’s the ultimate symbol of purity and spiritual enlightenment. In Buddhism, it represents the soul's journey toward awakening, remaining untouched by the chaos of the world. In Taoism, it’s a symbol of wisdom and openness, often carried by the immortal He Xiangu as a sign of her grace and power. It’s not just a flower; it’s a lesson.
What makes the lotus so special here is that its meaning isn’t just philosophical; it’s something you can taste and feel. The vendors with the seed pods will crack one open and pull out the fresh, green seeds for you to eat right there—a crisp, slightly sweet taste of summer’s end. I was also drawn to the lotus root powder, a classic remedy in traditional medicine. You mix it with hot water, and it transforms into a thick, comforting soup that’s believed to nourish the body and calm the spirit. It’s a plant that offers both spiritual and physical wellness.
So, what about my original question? How can they sell cut lotus flowers if they die so quickly?
It turns out, I was only half right. The lotus stem is hollow, and when you cut it, it does seal itself up, which is why it can't drink water from a vase. The vendors aren't selling them for long-lasting bouquets. They are sold for their immediate beauty, often as offerings for temples, or simply to be enjoyed for the day.
More importantly, the plant itself can survive, but only if you know its secret. The hollow stems act like little snorkels, bringing precious oxygen down to the roots. As long as you cut the stem above the water, the plant will be perfectly fine and continue to grow.
My simple question about a street vendor opened up this entire world for me. It’s a flower that teaches a spiritual lesson, offers nourishment, and holds a little secret about its own survival. And every year, when the vendors appear at the end of summer, I smile. I’m reminded that the most beautiful things in life often hold the deepest stories.