Wandering Reflections

The Accidental Adventurer: Finding Joy (and an Unusual Drink) When Utterly Lost in China Jun 22, 2025

There’s a certain thrill in wandering off the beaten path, a delicious freedom in letting curiosity guide your steps. I’ve always been one to peel away from the group, to explore that intriguing alleyway or follow a winding road just to see where it leads. Sometimes I’d get a little turned around, a pleasant disorientation that was part of the adventure. But there's a world of difference between being pleasantly disoriented and being utterly lost, especially when you’re alone in a country where ...

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The Art of Dining Alone: How Solo Travel Taught Me to Savor My Own Company Jun 08, 2025

The clatter of cutlery in a bustling restaurant used to sound like a symphony of judgment to my solo-traveler ears. Every shared laugh from a nearby table, every perceived glance in my direction, seemed to confirm my deepest fear: "Oh, look at that person eating all by themselves." That wave of intense self-consciousness was an unwelcome, yet familiar, companion to many of my early solo meals. The thought that people were watching, perhaps even pitying me, was almost enough to make me retreat to...

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My First Solo Trip: Facing Fears and Finding My Way (And Why I’d Do It All Again) May 26, 2025

Thinking about traveling alone for the first time can bring up a lot of feelings. For me, it was a mix of excitement and a whole lot of nerves. I’d always traveled with someone – family, partners, even my dogs. Going solo was a brand new, slightly scary idea. But that first solo trip? It changed everything, and even with the jitters, I wouldn’t trade it.

Life had thrown me some curveballs, and it was a pretty tough time. I’d recently discovered yoga, and it wasn’t just exercise; it was a lifeli...

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Petals & Ice Cream: My Magical Day at Turtle Head Peninsula Apr 06, 2025

 

When most people think of cherry blossoms, they imagine Japan—temples framed in pink, crowded parks under petal-filled skies. But guess what? China has its own breathtaking cherry blossoms, and in some places, they’re even more spectacular.

One of the best spots? Turtle Head Isle (鼋头渚, Yuántóuzhǔ) on Taihu Lake in Jiangsu province. This island is famous for its 30,000 cherry trees—more than many famous spots in Japan! And here’s the wild part: most of these "cherry blossom" trees don’t eve...

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A Frozen Wonderland: My Trip to Harbin’s Ice Festival Mar 25, 2025

A memory of Harbin has been frozen in my mind since 2010—a winter wonderland of ice, beautiful but modest in its scale. To return in 2025 was to step into a completely different realm. The quiet festival I remembered had erupted into a sprawling, glittering metropolis of ice, its growth supercharged by the energy of hosting this year's Asian Winter Olympics. The air buzzed with an international spirit, reflected in the colossal ice sculptures that paid homage to famous landmarks across A

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A Tale of Two Celebrations: My Journey Through Chinese Spring Festivals Feb 09, 2025

The first time I witnessed a Chinese Spring Festival celebration, I was living in Toronto. It was a vibrant, sensory explosion—streets adorned with red lanterns, the air filled with laughter and the sizzle of street food, and the rhythmic beats of drums accompanying the mesmerizing dragon and lion dances. Firecrackers popped intermittently, adding to the festive chaos. It was magical, and I remember thinking, “If this is how it’s celebrated abroad, imagine what it must be like in China!”

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